Systemic facilitator · Trainer
Xilo Espinoza
En tu idioma, a tu ritmo. In your own language, at your own pace. Family constellations in Spanish or English, online or in Brussels.
I am a systemic family-constellations facilitator, and I work in Spanish or English. This page is written in English, but the session itself runs entirely in whichever language is easier for you. I bring warmth and clear, steady guidance in the same session, playfulness where there is room for it, directness where it helps. When what you are carrying is heavy, my job is to stay beside you in it.
Most of my clients work with me over the medium to long term. We blend systemic constellations with somatic methods, using the body's own awareness to work through strong emotion, so that your progress is something you feel as well as understand.
I pay close attention, and I am genuinely curious about how your pattern holds together. My aim is that you meet deep patterns with confidence, one clear step at a time.
Working together
What themes does Xilo work with?
I work with people who are committed to medium- to long-term personal development. Much of our work turns around the early-life and family-system patterns that sit behind current challenges, and moves toward a clearer sense of responsibility and agency over your own life. The shifts I work toward are embodied and felt, not only understood.
What is Xilo's working style like?
Genuine attentiveness with clear, compassionate direction, and warmth alongside straightforward feedback. My intuition finds the core of an issue quickly. I weave somatic methods, breath, movement and visualisation, into the systemic work, linking thought and bodily sensation, so that what we look at together is not only thought about but felt.
Credentials
What is Xilo's background?
I hold a degree in International Relations from the Universidad del Valle in Nicaragua. Since 2017 I have trained intensively at Cecilia Altieri's EISEC, the European Institute for Systemic Education and Coaching, in facilitating constellations one to one and in groups, and I have been facilitating this work since 2020.
I am a certified Hatha Yoga instructor. Years of body-based practice are where my somatic way of working comes from: the breath, movement and attention to bodily sensation that I bring into the systemic work.
A personal note
About Xilo
I was born in Nicaragua and partly raised in Cuba. My path to this work ran from a high-pressure career in the airline industry, through a life-changing period in Kenya, and finally to Brussels. Outside the practice I read, deepen my yoga practice, and walk with my dogs Jazz and Charlotte.
Family & systemic constellations
Spanish, English
Brussels and online
Practising since 2018
In their words
What people say
Fantastic!! Magical!! Full of love and compassion:)
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Sessions with Xilo run online or in Brussels, in Spanish or English, whichever is easier for you.
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Choose a time that suits you. You bring what is alive for you now · there is nothing to prepare.
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Scope and safety
The right support at the right time
Sessions support change in how you live, relate and decide. They sit alongside medical and psychological care, and they do not replace it.
If you are in crisis right now, or you are having thoughts of harming yourself, please turn first to your doctor, to a crisis line where you live, or to the emergency services. If you are being treated for a psychiatric condition, or you have questions about medication, that care belongs with your prescriber, and our work can run alongside it.
If you are unsure where to start, ask us. We will tell you honestly whether this is the right support for you now.